Sadly those who knew them well grieved more for those left behind because we saw their pain and suffering for years after, both Andrea and Margaret were and I am sure still are lovely people.

So cruel that Margaret should also lose two year old Nicholas from meningitis less than a year later during the following T.T week.

I will never forget and it always chokes me to remember her sobbing her heart out and saying to me months later. "What have I ever done to make God hate me so much".

Life's short, shorter for some than others.