Hey good friends should be able to say what they feel without upsetting each other anyway !

My late mum died from emphysema (spellin :oops: ) bless her, she had been on a ventilator and was still asking me for a smoke !

It had been one of her few pleasures in life, that and a wee whisky, as she made sure my brother n i did well out of life.
I actually felt guilty saying that she couldn`t have one.

Having seen that though my kids will never smoke.

But lifes so short that we must live it as we see fit and it may not always be to each others agreement but thats when as close friends, we agree to differ no matter what its about.

Stella