Yes, Stella, my Mum too, and just after she died, when Dad and I were sitting with her, (He showed absolutely no trace of his dementia all that day)he said "You know, the only reason I ever smoked was for your Mam...I thought she'd like me better!" He smoked for a few years and gave it up...I now know he never enjoyed it...I have never smoked in my life and hate everything about it. But I don't hate those who smoke!